LET GO!!!!!!

   Before now I was always quick to drop statements like “I have trust issues” or “I’m good in short term relationships” here’s why; at some point in my life someone I had trusted hurt me so I naturally decided not to trust again, I used to say I was meant for only short term relationships because every time I wanted long term we ended up splitting now when I talk of relationships I’m not just talking dating relationships of any kind, friendship et all even family I thought I was going to be with my family everyday forever, but fast forward to JS 1 I became a boarder; yet again another long-term relationship destroyed, I made friends in Junior school friends I hoped to keep forever but 3 years after I changed schools again yet another long term relationship ruined. So I taught myself I was only meant for short term relationships.
     It took me a while to realize something, those are not my default setting, I’m not meant for only short term relationships and I don’t have trust issues, the problem I hadn’t let go of those who betrayed my trust or those who left me after a short while even though I wanted them in my life, and because I hadn’t let go of them I still held on to bitterness towards them so I couldn’t see anything clearly I could only see through the eyes of the bitterness I felt and trust me bitterness clogs vision and so you look at the people in your life now and you can’t see them all you’ll see instead are the faces of the ones who have hurt you, being angry at people does that much to you and you don’t need that, you need to let go of those who have hurt you, maybe someone you loved hurt you, you have to let go, they didn’t hurt you because of you they didn’t know any better they were trying to figure life out just like you were, this life is that complicated and we all are just trying learning we’re not taught how to live before we start living we learn to live while we live and there is no guarantee that no one would bump into your living in their quest to figure out life,  but you have to let go, you need to drop the baggage you of hurt you have to let go the longer you hold on to hurt the more people you would unintentionally hurt, the more wonderful relationships you’ll miss out on, and you’ll be depriving the world of YOU, you are a total package of awesomeness, you’re the best you give life to the day, you give substance to light, you’re brightness. It doesn’t matter who’s done you bad let go!! Don’t deprive the world, don’t deprive your generation, and don’t deprive yourself of the greatness that is YOU!!!! LET GO!
LOVE ALWAYS
BUSAYO KEHINDE
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