Several times we fail to understand the power of a healed
mind that is why we fail to heal often
times we do not heal because it’s just too difficult to heal, because healing
would involve us going back and opening issues we’ve so forced our mind to
forget we fail to realize that we never forget itt always comes back, even if
it’s after years of acting like not ever happened not allowing ourselves to
heal is like putting a bandage on a wound that needs surgery. Hurt we so
desperately want to forget could birth addictions that’s why several people
would break free from one addiction only to get into another some break free
from pornography only to retort to masturbation, some leave drugs for sexual
promiscuity some go into more secret ones like fantasy and lust.
We need to heal from
all our hurts possibly you've been abused as a child you were possibly molested
sexually by a family member or someone who wasn't even close to your family, or
you were emotionally abused as a child, emotional abuse involves verbal abuse
by people as well as violence, several times you might have just been a witness
to violence, several things in life could hurt us, the death of a loved one
possibly ones parent or sibling or someone you loved could totally cause one
pain. And if one does not heal addiction cannot totally be broken because we’ll
need something to medicate the pain we feel.
Healing is one of
the hardest things to do, healing involves grieving over whatever it is that
was lost, also healing involves forgiveness and even making peace with those
who have hurt one. I think forgiveness is the hardest part of healing its like
removing a part of you heart, its altering the shape of your heart, its like
teaching a person who has grown up all their life doing something a particular
way to start doing it differently, no matter how easier the other way might be,
its always hard for the person to adjust. But after a while they’ll adjust.
You’ll need to forgive now not for the other persons benefit but for your own
self. You’ll need Gods grace to forgive and finally occasionally therapy would
be necessary. If the need be get a qualified therapist to talk with you.
xoxo Busayo
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