DEAR BOAZ: DON'T MARRY A MAN UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED TO HIM! Hello people sorry I've not being updating my dear Boaz posts like i promised, the last week has been really stressful i've had a lot of tests and stuff, however here is another one. Hope you enjoy it. I also want to thank God very much for my family, thursday last week made it 21 years my parents have been together and i'm thankful for them, they are a part of my inspirations i love and I'm really thankful for them. The other day a friend of mine posted something on facebook about how her mind does this automatic rating once she sees a guy. Now i can't really say its wrong to rate someone by some of the things they do or look like, however for some of us our mind does a lot more that the "handsomeness meter" test, we meet a guy he says hello, and thats it, "he's in love with you" and right on your seat you marry him, 'you do a tux fitting(not physically), walk into the church with him staring at you, your family in the congregation, your favourite pastor giving the sermon, your honeymoon, you begin to have children, you picture how they'll look, you even give them names, before you even get to know the guys name'. For some of us a polite hi equals "hello how are you? You are so beautiful, would you marry me? Really we need to realise that not every man is YOUR potential husband, and also stop qualifying or disqualifying people. Without even giving them a chance to be our friends, we need to have friends even if we'll have a partner. Not every hi is a proposal we need to stop marrying people until we are married to them. Have a beautiful sunday! Xoxo HoneyDrops