Hello people trust the new year has been beautiful, I know
it’s a part of some of your new year resolution to stop being single this year.
Great resolution darling the lord sees your struggle and I pray he’ll help you.
This is a question I get too often and I’ve tried to answer severally and it
always comes down to the fact that I’m of age so I can date, its taken me close
to a week to answer this question I hope I’ve answered well and maybe inspired
you to join my team.
From the old women at the church, to best friends, long lost
friends, admirers, haters, everybody, no matter how white washed the question
might be, no matter how polite or jokingly, no matter how well put or sugar
coated it might be, it’s the same question everywhere and every time, are you
single? And a negative answer brings question two. Why are you still single?
Really, I don’t
who can relate to this, one stalker on FB would be like …….so hw’s bf?... or
the women at church be like when are we seeing our brother? Or your friends be
like what of the bobo and stuff like that, really its not abnormal having
people ask this questions I mean once you’re in higher institution you’re
supposed to like be in a relationship and stuff, and really these questions can
leave you feeling like something is wrong with you or somehow you’ll always be
single and it scares you. I mean I get that feeling sometimes, the other day a
friend of mine had some problems with her partner and sent me a message to seek
my counsel, and I began to wonder myself I talk to a lot of people about their
relationships and even help some build theirs then why am I still single? Maybe
I don’t go out enough, or I don’t go to the right places, or I don’t dress well
enough, or somehow I’m defective and so no one can come close to me, no guys
has asked me out, or no one can live with my randomness or on the spiritual side maybe there is a spirit that stops
guys from coming close to me :D, cut that crap it’s all lies and lies and lies, No I’m not defective, I do
go out, I go to the right places, I dress properly, guys do ask me out, deres
no spirit chasing me and yes I’m pretty.
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Now to be truthful,
friends, readers, colleagues, and those reading this probably because you’re
bored and I’m quite an interesting person, or you saw the link and decided to
peep in, the answer to this question is, I am not single because I have to or
because I want to, I’m single because I have not seen a reason to stop being
single, I’m single because for everything I do there has to be a purpose and an
intention and If I would stop being single it has to be for and with the right
purpose and intention and not because I’m bored and dating is a fun activity or
because I need somebody to subscribe for my bis monthly or because he is close
to my age and I’ve come of age to date, I’m single because I was created by the
creator of love who knows my dreams, hope and my future, so I’ll spend my time
pleasing him while I’m waiting, waiting for the true forever kind of love he’ll
send to me himself, I’m single because I’m single because I’ve not developed
properly and God can’t give me to any wise person in my state(automatically the
only other option is a fool which I totally reject), I’m single because I don’t
want to choose for myself again( every choice I’ve made have always been
foolish anyway), this time I want Gods choice and until he pick for me I’m
content waiting, I’m single because I’m not going to be having flings anymore,
I’m single because true love is worth waiting for and until true love comes I’m
content waiting. I hope you would to give waiting a chance. Plus to the single
maybe I reasons I one of the reasons why you are also single :D.
Ps : you should totally check out Jenette ikz “I will wait
for you” on YouTube and Jamie Grace
video “boys boys boys” they are a part of my inspiration for this post.
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